Do you have a multimeter and if so, do you know how to use it?
When low speed is selected, check the output of the relay. You should have voltage. If not, bad relay or bad trace on the board. You might want to pull the board to inspect the back side.
Being as you have replaced the pump, I'm leaning to the low speed relay. Relays can be replaced by someone with soldering experience and are not overly expensive.