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Original => Hot Tub Forum => Topic started by: Campsalot on May 18, 2006, 06:55:49 pm

Title: Just how often.......
Post by: Campsalot on May 18, 2006, 06:55:49 pm
A recent post I placed prompted the following idea for this post.  Just how often does everyone use their hot tubs?  And, how many of you folks get in their tubs in their original Birthday Suites? (AKA ala natural) You see my wife and I have this on going battle over tub usage.  I like to go in at night when its dark ala natural, she prefers to go in fully suited and earlier in the evening.  We are on different schedules and she likes to go to bed about the time I want to go soak.  We end up using our beautiful 05 Sundance Maxxus very rarely because neither of us want to go in alone.  Yes East_Tx_Spa, your inquiry about tub usage started this dilemma. My wife now says the only reason I wait until dark is because of my bathing preference.  She is partially right.  My suit blows a huge air bubble and I float.  I prefer no bubbles.  My wife prefers being suited, it stems from a nasty incident with too much Kaluha, a nosy neighbor, and some great lingerie. Enough said and don't ask.  Please, everyone post this should b great.
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: The_Big_Spa_Fairy on May 18, 2006, 07:00:03 pm
Alas, most Fairies float suited or not.

Have you ever tried to make a 'date' for the tub? Shoot for a time which works for both of you if you can. Could be on a Saturday night, or even early in the morning.

Privacy panels? Have fun -


Oh, and you might try a suit that breathes more and doesn't trap air. I understand that there are some nice looking crochet numbers available.
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: J._McD on May 18, 2006, 07:08:30 pm
4-5 nights a week el natuaral both of us, 10:30 - 11:00 the darker hours.

Females are more modest, (especially  :-[ after getting into a predicament like that) guys could care less who sees what, if they haven't seen it before they are not from this world.  Ladies on the other hand are more "modest" than guys, unless of course . . . well, some are not inhibited.

Ask her, what is there to fear, and the find a solution for that.  What a terrible waste of romance, going it alone. :-/



Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: jsimo7 on May 18, 2006, 07:54:01 pm
We use our tub 2-4 times per week.  Summer months may be a bit less because many other things are going on. We use it more in the winter months.

I like no suit but my wife wants a suit. We both at least like to go in at the same time 9-10 in the evening. We both like morning soaks also. When we go in during the day I will go in with a suit  and take it off when we start the jets.
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: Markus on May 18, 2006, 08:28:50 pm
We use our tub 7 days/week. Ala natural... everytime (it just feels so much better to be free). We wait 'till dark just incase someone visits and walks around the house to the back.
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: Bill_Stevenson on May 18, 2006, 08:29:51 pm
If I waited for my wife to soak in the hottub with me, the tub would get used about 4 times per year.  She lives in Massachusetts and I live in Florida.  Job issues.  

Anyway, I go in mine any damn time I want in my birthday suit, but I prefer the evening just before bed.  If the neighbors don't like it they can quit rubber necking.  In fact, no one has ever said a word.  

Regards,

Bill
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: Vinny on May 18, 2006, 10:02:14 pm
I use the tub 1 or 2 times a week and the wife doesn't use it at all. She's been in about 5 times during this past year.

I go in suited ... I have a 11 and 15 YO, my tub is under the kitchen window and my neighbor's window looks out onto my deck. It wasn't too bad until I put deck post lights up and now my deck is WELL lit. BUT I have gone in and de bathing suited while in the tub when the kids are asleep. I tend to go in about 9 to 9:45 - I find it wakes me up and then I stay up for another 2 hours.

I will admit it does get loanly out there but this is my "toy" so I try to use it. some nights I do have guilty feelings going in it as my wife does homework with my youngest.
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: Chas on May 19, 2006, 12:57:26 am
Couple of times a week. Suited. I do tend to float. I will and do go in whenever my back tells me to no matter who else is getting in or already in.

Teenaged daughter and I enjoy soaking together - it often gives me a woderful glimpes into her world and her heart. She is very good at sharing the rest of the time, but any barriers are down in the tub.

My son has just come through a rough time, I expect to see him joining us more often in the near future. He's a bit older.

8)
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: wmccall on May 19, 2006, 07:33:47 am
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 My suit blows a huge air bubble and I float.


Buy a speedo and that won't happen. Now, as some can tell, I'm not a person who should be seen in public in a speedo, but its my backyard and if anyone looks, they get what they deserve.  We have a 22 year old daughter at home, when she isn't home, its no suits after dark. (When I get a corner privacy fence up it will be suitless more often)  But its suits on when she is home.  With our schedules, its hard to get all 3 of us together, but our best talking and catching up occurs during soak time.

You can't bait us and not spill the beans about the incident with the neighbor.
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: wmccall on May 19, 2006, 07:38:53 am
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Anyway, I go in mine any damn time I want in my birthday suit, but I prefer the evening just before bed.  If the neighbors don't like it they can quit rubber necking.  In fact, no one has ever said a word.  

Regards,

Bill


I agree, I generally try to not do so if the neighbors on the one visible side are outside.  I did have on neighbor tell me, "My wife saw you getting in the hottub the other day"  He had no inflection in his voice, so there was no clue is he was saying, "She was disgusted, don't do it again, or she said, "Cool, do it more often  ;)" Judging from the fact that they pull thier shades when we use our tub, I'm guessing it was the former.   The people that lived there before them had a big screen tv in that room.  Of course she was a retired exotic dancer.
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: drewstar on May 19, 2006, 09:04:56 am
I use my tub 3-4 times a week.  My wife about 2 a month. (she prefers cold water. Me? I like being in hot water   ;)) unless I have a sore muscle, I soak at night. usually around 9:30.

We  will be using the tub less once the warm weather hits New England. But in the Winter....forget it, I could live in the hot tub!  We go 'au-natural' (even in the pool).  It actually feels strange and uncomfortable to be in the water with a damp/wet  suit.  And unlike other wifes...my wife has nooooo problems with modesty.   ;D "Honey. People are comming over for dinner, please put some clothes on!

"Why? "


Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: Zep on May 19, 2006, 09:26:29 am
Since you ask......

I use my tub about 3 times a week.

I prefer about 8-9PM on weeknights
and 10-11:30PM on weekends.

I say "2 Each His Own" but I never soak
"nekid" and don't think I ever would.

For me...I just have absolutely no desire
to be in my hot tub nude.

But hey...whatever floats your boat!

;)

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Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: TN__HOT_TUB on May 19, 2006, 09:47:41 am
4 to 5 times a week.
In my suit (I have pulled my suit off in the tub, once)
I usually soak around 9PM
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: Drewski on May 19, 2006, 09:59:06 am
Well now let's see.

I (that's ME) use it about 45-60 minutes each day. Mostly after I get home from work (about 20 minutes) and then again before I go to bed (about 30-40 minutes).

The kids seem to like using it for about 1 hour each week night, depending on how long they can last without engaging in "battle" (water wars, horse play, dunking, etc.) that generally ends in me having them get out.

On either Friday or Saturday night, I usually have a bunch of friends over and the "kid session" in the tub goes first, usually 2 HOURS, lasting from about 7 PM until 9 PM (not ALL kids at once). The "adult session" starts at around 10 PM and lasts another 2 HOURS, generally until after midnight. I don't know what gets more of a workout during the "adult session," my jet pumps or the blender making drinks...

A quick story -- my "across the street neighbor," I'll call him "R," loves coming and hanging with us when he can "escape" from his wife (she's 26, but likes to go to bed early). The other night a bunch of us were in the tub when we saw "R" sneak out from his bedroom, slide down his front rain gutter and join us for scotch and cohibas while sitting in the tub. Now, when you're drinking Glenlivet Single Malt (the 18 year old variety) and smoking Churchill's, I probably don't have to tell you it's an "acquired" taste. Especially when your sitting in 105 degree water.

Unfortunately, there was no telling his punk a$$ that...

So, about an hour later, he was looking a little "green." His 28 year old stamina seemed to be lacking. He just couldn't hang with the BIG dogs... My, my, my... (as the man says, I'm not as good as I once was, BUT I'm good ONCE as I ever was...)

When I last saw him he was leaning against a corner wall near my tub, mumbling something about "needing to get home." A friend of mine (bless him) was kind enough to "guide" him across the street to his house where he "discovered" he didn't bring his keys and had to ring the bell to wake his wife. Needless to say, she was NOT pleased. That was 3 weeks ago and I haven't seen him since.  Poor kid....   :P

So, 10 to 16 hours of use per week, generally with about 20 different people (or more) getting in each week, is about my norm now.

I need weekends from my weekends....

Drewski

8)

Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: drewstar on May 19, 2006, 10:13:57 am
Drewski, too bad about the  young pup.   But he'll survice.


What water treatment do you use? you've got a lot of action in that tub and I'm curious what do you find works best for you?
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: Zep on May 19, 2006, 11:25:53 am
drew.....great story!....LOL

yeah all them kids in there.....
not sure I'd wanna be getting in afterward!

sounds like you really enjoy your tub.

;)

Have a great weekend.
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: Drewski on May 19, 2006, 11:34:15 am
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What water treatment do you use? you've got a lot of action in that tub and I'm curious what do you find works best for you?


Hey Drewstar:

I use dichlor, ozone and wash my filters every week.  Usually, I'll wash the filters on Sunday afternoon, followed by checking pH and other chem levels. I'll adjust pH and TA usually during this time. After the filters are clean, I'll add a cap full of clarifying agent.

On Monday night, after the kids use the tub, I'll add a cap of dichlor and let the tub run for 10 minutes, followed by leaving it open for another 30 minutes or so until I get in. It runs for me twice at night, followed by me covering it and going to bed. I usually follow the same routine each week night.

On Saturday, I'll shock with 3 caps of dichlor in the morning and let the tub run with the top off for an hour. If I have any foam (and I mean ANY foam), I'll add 2 caps of clarifying agent and see if I have scum line form. If I do, I let the tub run longer and clean it out. I also check pH at this point to see if I'll need to add on Sunday, which usually I don't because the dichlor product I use has a buffering agent. Saturday night is usually the HEAVY use night, so I want the water perfect going into it. During a week, because of kids and 6-8 adults in the tub at once, it's not unusual for me to replace up to 1/3 of my tub water volume.

My only complaint about this routine is I do have a higher chlorine level (usually 3-4 ppm), but I've found with higher use I can rapidly lose control if I let the chlorine drop out. Because I have so much water in and out, I often don't change water until the "party" season is over (generally the summer). Still, when I get to the point I can't see the bottom when the tub is running, I'll usually change water. This happens sometimes 2 to 3 months after the last change, sometimes longer. Because of my water use, N2 is not an option.

I can't emphasize how IMPORTANT it is to have clean filters. Good chemistry is wonderful, but all that BAD stuff has to go somewhere. My Piper Glen uses three 7" diameter x 8 " long cartridges, two on each jet pump suction, one on the circ pump. Each filter also has a bypass (except the circ pump) due to pump GPH ratings. I find running the jet pumps for about 30 minutes to "clean" the water really helps, followed by letting the circ pump run 24 HRS. Ozone and heat are on the circ pump line.

For the most part, my water is crystal. Occasionally, I run into a bump, but I can usually recover within 24 hours. To date, I've never had the kids or guests ever experience a rash.

My experience, for what it's worth...

Drewski

8)
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: Drewski on May 19, 2006, 11:37:09 am
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drew.....great story!....LOL

yeah all them kids in there.....
not sure I'd wanna be getting in afterward!

sounds like you really enjoy your tub.

 ;)

Have a great weekend.

THANKS Zep!

BTW, I had "Houses of the Holy" playing the other night while we were soaking...

I also just got a new digital camera (my last one was stolen) so I hope to start putting up new pictures...

Drewski

:P
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: anne on May 19, 2006, 12:15:48 pm
I go in au naturale, and almost daily, sometimes morning, sometimes night. I have a private (but small) back yard, with nobody immediately nearby with a two story house so I feel relatively secure. I try to duck in and out quickly, since I'm probably visible standing on the top step. Other than that, I figure if anyone is going to see me its because they are looking, and that's on them, not me. I guess our situation is opposite most, cuz my boyfriend wont go in during the day without a suit, but then he's only been in it 4-5 times total. I'm hoping that will change soon.
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: Drewski on May 19, 2006, 12:34:44 pm
Just a warning for you "naturalist" users, click here (http://www.whatsthebest-hottub.com/cgi-bin/yabb/YaBB.pl?board=wtb-hottub;action=display;num=1102435655;start=0) to find out what happens when you don't think ahead...

Drewski

:P
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: windsurfdog on May 19, 2006, 01:29:23 pm
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In my suit (I have pulled my suit off in the tub, once)

For those who like to soak sans suit, I'm surprised more people don't practice the "wear suit into tub, remove suit and soak, put on suit to exit tub" routine....certainly works for me.  Of course, no suit at all under darkness.  Soaking times vary for me but usually 5-6 times a week varying from just before/at dawn to sunset to dark:30.  And then there are the meteor showers in the middle of the night....lounge, here I come! 8)
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: thearm on May 19, 2006, 02:02:23 pm
I am in the tub daily sometimes more than once. 90% sans suit night or day. Wife uses 5-6 times a week prefers no suit but wears in daytime if son or daughter is home. W
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: thearm on May 19, 2006, 02:09:12 pm
I am in the tub daily sometimes more than once. 90% sans suit night or day. Wife uses 5-6 times a week prefers no suit but wears in daytime if son or daughter is home. I wear suit only if company is here or daughter is home from college.  Any time is good time to use but mostly after golf, basketball or softball. Use nights usually during the week and mornings on the weekend. I have 10 acres with no visible neighbors and spa is on the back deck with only deer,turkeys and misc other wildlife to spy on me. Gotta love upstate NY.
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: anne on May 19, 2006, 02:22:11 pm
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Just a warning for you "naturalist" users, click here (http://www.whatsthebest-hottub.com/cgi-bin/yabb/YaBB.pl?board=wtb-hottub;action=display;num=1102435655;start=0) to find out what happens when you don't think ahead...

Drewski

 :P



That was hilarious. Luckily, my back door does not lock from the outside.
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: Stemay on May 19, 2006, 02:50:32 pm
OMG Drewski, that was hysterical!!!!  Thanks for the warning!  We FREQUENTLY lock ourselves out of our back door.  Will definitely have to hide a key out there once we get the hot tub!!!!
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: The_Big_Spa_Fairy on May 19, 2006, 03:53:02 pm
This would be a time when a fairy's ability to dissapear coulc come in handy.

Of course, we're certainly not a very hairy fairy.
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: Zep on May 19, 2006, 04:43:17 pm
DREWSKI......

That is hilarious!

OMG.....I could see how that could happen.

Very funny.

I even copied and pasted the story in an e-mail
to some in my office.....the girls are getting a
kick out of it.

One even wants your address!

;)

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Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: NE-Phil on May 19, 2006, 05:33:20 pm
My wife and I are usually in there at least 3 times a week, from 15 minutes up to an hour, mostly evenings and (after dark) sans suit. Our tub is somewhat exposed so if we go in during the day I'll wear a suit into it and remove it once I'm in.
I hate suits due to bubble inflation factor. And no, I don't believe they make a speedo in my size.  :o

Oh, and Drewski, I remember reading that post of your lockout adventure awhile ago. For that reason, I made sure to hide a key nearby as we do have a locking slider. In fact, it has already come in handy once.
'Nuff said... ::)

Phil
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: hottub.pool_boy on May 19, 2006, 07:17:11 pm
Solana TX, 1-3 times per week. No suit. Especially when I tweak my back on a spa delivery. Of course, that's after my adjustment at the chiropractor. He's also spa owner.
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: Vinny on May 19, 2006, 07:27:25 pm
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Solana TX, 1-3 times per week. No suit. Especially when I tweak my back on a spa delivery. Of course, that's after my adjustment at the chiropractor. He's also spa owner.



Years ago I hurt my back and my chiropractor advised me to get into hot water. I laid in the bath tub (6' person in a 5' bath tub) and it did help somewhat. I never forgot that and whenever my back hurts (I have very muscular stomach  ::) ) I head for the hot tub!
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: Bosmani on May 19, 2006, 07:36:09 pm
2-3 times a week naked and its cold here in Ireland.
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: hottub.pool_boy on May 19, 2006, 07:39:05 pm
You're right Vin, it's not a cure but it helps.
Title: Re: Just how often.......
Post by: Campsalot on May 20, 2006, 12:40:17 am
Okay everyone.....keep it coming.  I have not laughed so dang hard in a long time.  Yes, Drewski that story of yours is definatley one for Readers Digest Life in these United States.  LOL , damn that was funny and I don't care who you are.  
So Terminator!  Where is our imput?