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Title: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Chad on January 19, 2008, 07:05:27 am
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Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Bonibelle on January 19, 2008, 10:31:57 am
that tub definately needs magic eraser!
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Cyn on January 19, 2008, 11:21:28 am
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that tub definately needs magic eraser!
Bonni-
LOL, you can tell that post was written by a woman!!  I wonder where all the guys are this morning??  In shock?  I would think that picture would be have them all foaming at the mouth.  I think that cover-up, or whatever it is, is pretty alluring.  
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Chad on January 19, 2008, 11:49:21 am
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 I wonder where all the guys are this morning??  In shock?  I would think that picture would be have them all foaming at the mouth.  I think that cover-up, or whatever it is, is pretty alluring.  
I was hoping for a little more feedback too b/c one of my brothers sent me a bunch of her pics as he thought she looked just like one of my ex girlfriends. The resemblance is unbelievable. Well, except for the assets. I probably shouldn't have let that one go. :'(
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: mattNY on January 19, 2008, 12:45:03 pm
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one of my brothers sent me a bunch of her pics

And where are the rest!?
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Chad on January 19, 2008, 01:07:50 pm
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And where are the rest!?
Check your PMs
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Cyn on January 19, 2008, 01:28:36 pm
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I was hoping for a little more feedback too b/c one of my brothers sent me a bunch of her pics as he thought she looked just like one of my ex girlfriends. The resemblance is unbelievable. Well, except for the assets. I probably shouldn't have let that one go. :'(
She is adorable and that is one of the best, without giving too much away, female human portraits I have seen in ages.  Can you call the one you know and start things over?   ;)
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Chad on January 19, 2008, 01:37:10 pm
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She is adorable and that is one of the best, without giving too much away, female human portraits I have seen in ages.  Can you call the one you know and start things over?   ;)
It's been about 4 years since we last "dated". She is now married. That's why we split. I wasn't ready to settle down. Heck I was only 21. It's a different story nowadays....
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Vinny on January 19, 2008, 03:38:07 pm
Funny, I thought the hot tub was behind her to the left. Saw all those leaves and thought how they should have cleaned it up for the photo. I didn't notice how dirty the steps were until Boni said something.

As for the woman - she's OK. She looks a lot more natural than a lot of the other women posted here.

Chad when you find the right one - you'll "KNOW"!
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Chad on January 19, 2008, 03:50:21 pm
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Funny, I thought the hot tub was behind her to the left.

It is.

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She looks a lot more natural than a lot of the other women posted here.


That's how I like them.

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Chad when you find the right one - you'll "KNOW"!

I hope she's still out there.
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Vinny on January 19, 2008, 06:26:57 pm
Chad,

I like them natural looking as well. I can't get into women who wear tons of makeup and whatever else. I don't find high maintence women attractive at all.

She's out there for you, you just haven't found her yet. There is someone for everyone.

Best advice I can give and I tell this to my 17 YO is to look for inner beauty as outer beauty fades! Of course at 17 YO this advice is being wasted. Second best advice I can give is look for a "sturdy" woman. Find a woman who you can rely on. Again at 17 it's not even heard. This advice must be from my Italian upbringing! ;D

This advice I tell him to ingrain it into his head when he gets older and is trying to find "the one".
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: IL Parrothead on January 19, 2008, 11:48:14 pm
Yeah, she's nice.  But I prefer it when they take their dress off before hopping into the pool!   :D
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Cyn on January 20, 2008, 10:32:25 am
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Chad,

I like them natural looking as well. I can't get into women who wear tons of makeup and whatever else. I don't find high maintence women attractive at all.

She's out there for you, you just haven't found her yet. There is someone for everyone.

Best advice I can give and I tell this to my 17 YO is to look for inner beauty as outer beauty fades! Of course at 17 YO this advice is being wasted. Second best advice I can give is look for a "sturdy" woman. Find a woman who you can rely on. Again at 17 it's not even heard. This advice must be from my Italian upbringing! ;D

This advice I tell him to ingrain it into his head when he gets older and is trying to find "the one".

 [smiley=2vrolijk_08.gif] [smiley=2vrolijk_08.gif]  I was hysterical after reading your advice Vinny!!  You sure are old world in your thinking!!  A 'sturdy wife' ??  Find one you can rely on??  Rely on versus what??   ;)  
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Vinny on January 20, 2008, 11:36:43 am
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 [smiley=2vrolijk_08.gif] [smiley=2vrolijk_08.gif]  I was hysterical after reading your advice Vinny!!  You sure are old world in your thinking!!  A 'sturdy wife' ??  Find one you can rely on??  Rely on versus what??   ;)  

Well, there are people, both men and women, whose sole pupose in life is to "look pretty". This to me is not a good thing. If someone needs to be taken care of and treated with kid gloves - bad sign IMO. Then again, there are people who are looking just for that type of person as a partner.

For this case having a woman who is afraid that she may break a nail or can't move something is someone who "you can't rely on" and cetainly is not "sturdy". I prefer a woman who is not afraid to go outside and rip out a bush vs "I need that bush taken out". We know someone like that and my wife commented as to how girly this person is.

My wife is not afraid to help out on whatever. Heck, she had to go up onto a 32 foot ladder because I couldn't do it. I relied upon her. She is self sufficient - doesn't need me to take care of her.  She has also ripped out bushes, cut the lawn and moved furniture with me because it had to get done. To me she is "sturdy" woman. I get comments about my wife doing these things and I am amazed that my wife is somewhat unique in this area. Men have told me that their wives won't paint, cut the lawn or do any "manly" things.

Does this mean that a person has to be ugly - not at all, I consider my wife to be very attractive.

I found a gem when I married her and I knew it when I first met her. BTW, she paid for our 2nd date because I spent a lot on our 1st date. She felt it was unfair to take money all the time.

I knew a woman might have asked what I meant by this. Hopefully my response answered it.
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Cyn on January 20, 2008, 12:03:43 pm
Ah, I see what 'sturdy' means to you now.  And I agree whole-heartedly with your description of what I would call low maintenance in general.  And it goes well for both sexes.  The word sturdy invoked in me a vision of a homely house frau sitting awaiting your every command, taking care of your kids, etc., while you went about your business never worried that anyone would give her a second glance romance-wise!!  The old song "Take An Ugly Woman To Be Your Wife"  ;D  One can be knock down gorgeous (once again I am speaking of males and females) and have all your 'sturdy' qualities as well!!  Physical chemistry and love are two different things, but when they come together in the same "mate" it is mind-blowing!!  I can see that you have that with your wife...lucky, lucky man.  I too have it with my husband.  And we will wish it for Chad... :-*

Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: thearm on January 20, 2008, 12:49:17 pm
The best marriage advice I was given was that Men marry woman and expect they will never change and woman marry men thinking they will change. Usually this does not happen. I agree with Vinny about sturdy woman. My wife is very pretty and is also very handy with doing things around the house inside and out. Now here is a question that me and my wife have been discussing lately. Of the following three things in a woman do you consider the 2 most important? A great cook, A great lover or a great housekeeper? I would love some feedback from all of you.
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Vinny on January 20, 2008, 01:02:37 pm
Out of those 3 I would only pick 1 - a great lover. The other thing I would choose is a great friend!

In this day of both partners working - both have to share the cooking and cleaning. I also think if someone excells at cooking and enjoys it - let them do it. Everyone hates cleaning!!!!

Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Brookenstein on January 20, 2008, 01:38:26 pm
Crap, if a great housekeeper is important, I'm up for the worse wife award ever.   :'(

Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: NE-Phil on January 20, 2008, 01:43:38 pm
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Crap, if a great housekeeper is important, I'm up for the worse wife award ever.   :'(


Hey! Neither me or my wife are any good at housekeeping. So what? We've managed to survive almost 25 years and raise a family. We always see it as a last priority.
Life goes on!

Phil
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Bonibelle on January 20, 2008, 05:27:03 pm
This is a funny post!  I think I would be considered a "sturdy woman". at least by Vinny's definition!  And I am really a lousy housekeeper. I would much rather paint and wallpaper or rearrange a room than clean it!
The reason that this stuck me so funny was I rode with my husband to an event Saturday and had to catch a ride home with a neighbor, who hasn't seen my husband for several years. When we got in the car, she said to me "Damn, he is still a really good looking guy". I guess it's his Italian blood, but he does look much younger than he is and he always dresses nice. Yeah he is a really good looking guy. :) ;)..So I was just imagining the roles switched. He is riding with his friend and the friend says "Man Boni is still a really sturdy gal!" That's funny... ;D
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Vinny on January 20, 2008, 09:23:39 pm
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This is a funny post!  I think I would be considered a "sturdy woman". at least by Vinny's definition!  And I am really a lousy housekeeper. I would much rather paint and wallpaper or rearrange a room than clean it!
The reason that this stuck me so funny was I rode with my husband to an event Saturday and had to catch a ride home with a neighbor, who hasn't seen my husband for several years. When we got in the car, she said to me "Damn, he is still a really good looking guy". I guess it's his Italian blood, but he does look much younger than he is and he always dresses nice. Yeah he is a really good looking guy. :) ;)..So I was just imagining the roles switched. He is riding with his friend and the friend says "Man Boni is still a really sturdy gal!" That's funny... ;D

What men say to each other about women is one thing and what we say to their husbands is another! ::)


Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: dax on January 21, 2008, 10:51:16 am
Amazing the direction this thread took given the way it started out.  Definitely a beautiful young woman.  How old/young do you think she is?

I can never guess ages correctly.  I was out at a bar the other night and some woman, who had a few too many, had to pick me to guess her age.  She was out celebrating her birthday with friends.  At first I refused to answer, but she insisted.  I could swear her one friend mouthed "52" to me.  So to be nice I said, "48."  Turns out she was 42, and pissed as hell.  She kept saying "I think I look good for 42, don't you think I look good?  48?"  Shoud have kept my mouth shut...
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Bonibelle on January 21, 2008, 04:14:30 pm
Lucky you still have a mouth..a "Sturdy Gal" would have flattened you, Dax!!! ;D
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: NittanyLion on January 23, 2008, 08:50:00 am
Always smarter to really lowball when a girl asks how old she looks, they're not happy if you guess correctly and they're really not happy if you guess higher.  My standard guess is twenty-nine, even if she's really 69 and knows you're fibbing she'll still coo and goo and end up with a smile on her face.

Always makes me wonder why women always want to ask when they're never happy with the answer.  File that with "do these pants make me look fat"?
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Brookenstein on January 23, 2008, 11:42:36 am
I'm one of those rare people I guess who don't care how old I look and want to know if my pants make me look fat.  Actually I don't care if I look 'fat' per se, I want to know if said item is complementing my assets or making them look unattractive.  Before J and I were dating he used to give me the best advice on what to wear/not wear... and then after we hooked up he switched to 'that looks nice... oh that looks nice too'.  I much preferred you look hot in that and eww your butt looks flat in that wear something else to a standard that looks nice.  If I didn't want feedback I wouldn't ask for it.  I don't go fishing for compliments.
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Bonibelle on January 23, 2008, 04:28:34 pm
Brooke, Just wait until your boys are a bit older.. ..We went on a family cruise about 2 years ago and I took my boys with me to shop for my cruise wardrobe (they were about 14 and 15). It was so much fun...they enjoyed it too and I knew they were giving me totally honest opinions (nothing held back). Some of the other women that were shopping got a real kick out of their comments and one lady even asked them what they thought about something she was trying on! They couldn't wait to surprise their Dad with the clothes that they had selected for me to wear to the captain's dinner.  

So now I usually ask my boys what they think..they wouldn't let Mom out in anything that didn't look right  ;)
Title: Re: Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Post by: Brookenstein on January 23, 2008, 05:03:54 pm
I think my oldest is almost there Bonni, except he's sweet and thinks everything looks good.  This summer I came accross a good sale and decided to try on a few tihngs.  Cameron picked out a dress for me to try and then told me I looked beautiful... so I had to buy it, lol.  J's reaction was a little different... "more like 'what the &^(@ were you thinking??? it has flowers and stripes."  I still love the dress because he picked it out.