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Picture of the Day - Jan. 19th, 2008
Vinny:
Chad,
I like them natural looking as well. I can't get into women who wear tons of makeup and whatever else. I don't find high maintence women attractive at all.
She's out there for you, you just haven't found her yet. There is someone for everyone.
Best advice I can give and I tell this to my 17 YO is to look for inner beauty as outer beauty fades! Of course at 17 YO this advice is being wasted. Second best advice I can give is look for a "sturdy" woman. Find a woman who you can rely on. Again at 17 it's not even heard. This advice must be from my Italian upbringing! ;D
This advice I tell him to ingrain it into his head when he gets older and is trying to find "the one".
IL Parrothead:
Yeah, she's nice. But I prefer it when they take their dress off before hopping into the pool! :D
Cyn:
--- Quote ---Chad,
I like them natural looking as well. I can't get into women who wear tons of makeup and whatever else. I don't find high maintence women attractive at all.
She's out there for you, you just haven't found her yet. There is someone for everyone.
Best advice I can give and I tell this to my 17 YO is to look for inner beauty as outer beauty fades! Of course at 17 YO this advice is being wasted. Second best advice I can give is look for a "sturdy" woman. Find a woman who you can rely on. Again at 17 it's not even heard. This advice must be from my Italian upbringing! ;D
This advice I tell him to ingrain it into his head when he gets older and is trying to find "the one".
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[smiley=2vrolijk_08.gif] [smiley=2vrolijk_08.gif] I was hysterical after reading your advice Vinny!! You sure are old world in your thinking!! A 'sturdy wife' ?? Find one you can rely on?? Rely on versus what?? ;)
Vinny:
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[smiley=2vrolijk_08.gif] [smiley=2vrolijk_08.gif] I was hysterical after reading your advice Vinny!! You sure are old world in your thinking!! A 'sturdy wife' ?? Find one you can rely on?? Rely on versus what?? ;)
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Well, there are people, both men and women, whose sole pupose in life is to "look pretty". This to me is not a good thing. If someone needs to be taken care of and treated with kid gloves - bad sign IMO. Then again, there are people who are looking just for that type of person as a partner.
For this case having a woman who is afraid that she may break a nail or can't move something is someone who "you can't rely on" and cetainly is not "sturdy". I prefer a woman who is not afraid to go outside and rip out a bush vs "I need that bush taken out". We know someone like that and my wife commented as to how girly this person is.
My wife is not afraid to help out on whatever. Heck, she had to go up onto a 32 foot ladder because I couldn't do it. I relied upon her. She is self sufficient - doesn't need me to take care of her. She has also ripped out bushes, cut the lawn and moved furniture with me because it had to get done. To me she is "sturdy" woman. I get comments about my wife doing these things and I am amazed that my wife is somewhat unique in this area. Men have told me that their wives won't paint, cut the lawn or do any "manly" things.
Does this mean that a person has to be ugly - not at all, I consider my wife to be very attractive.
I found a gem when I married her and I knew it when I first met her. BTW, she paid for our 2nd date because I spent a lot on our 1st date. She felt it was unfair to take money all the time.
I knew a woman might have asked what I meant by this. Hopefully my response answered it.
Cyn:
Ah, I see what 'sturdy' means to you now. And I agree whole-heartedly with your description of what I would call low maintenance in general. And it goes well for both sexes. The word sturdy invoked in me a vision of a homely house frau sitting awaiting your every command, taking care of your kids, etc., while you went about your business never worried that anyone would give her a second glance romance-wise!! The old song "Take An Ugly Woman To Be Your Wife" ;D One can be knock down gorgeous (once again I am speaking of males and females) and have all your 'sturdy' qualities as well!! Physical chemistry and love are two different things, but when they come together in the same "mate" it is mind-blowing!! I can see that you have that with your wife...lucky, lucky man. I too have it with my husband. And we will wish it for Chad... :-*
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